Accountability is a powerful tool when it comes to spiritual growth. And Christian men in accountable relationships develop into great men of God, and we see examples of this throughout the Bible. For example, consider the relationships between Jonathan and David, Barnabas and Paul, Paul and Timothy, and most-notably, Jesus and his Disciples.
But despite history's lessons, Spiritual accountability might be the most misunderstood practice among Christian men. When we hear the word "accountability," it has a negative connotation, like we're in trouble for something we did wrong. And while that isn't necessarily untrue, if that's our only perception of the term, then we're missing out on its greater potential for our spiritual growth and development.
So forget what you think you know about accountability and consider these three points.
Be Positive & Proactive
First, accountability should be positive and proactive. Don't just focus on what someone has done wrong, but what has been done well. And direct your brothers to things they should start doing that will benefit them in the long run, like praying, reading the Bible, or the act of forgiveness, to name a few.
Invite Accountability
Second, accountability doesn't have to come from someone else; we can invite it upon ourselves. When we ask other men (whom we trust) to hold us accountable to a declared goal or dream, we'll experience more significant and longer-lasting results. Self-imposed accountability is always more effective than relying on someone else to do it for us.
Know Your “Why”
Third, accountability should be driven by Christian principles. If we're held accountable to change based on worldly motivations or expectations, not only will we have wasted our energy, but potentially jeopardized our soul. When we are held accountable to the spiritual purpose and outcomes of change, then and only then will we change for all the right reasons.
Holding others accountable and being held accountable ourselves isn't always easy. But we must remember that God uses other men to prune us into the men He wants us to become. Welcome accountability into your life for His glory, not your own.
