Lessons in Strategic Fatherhood // with Jay Cookingham

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Jay Cookingham

Jay Cookingham

If you're reading this, it's a safe bet that you're already doing all you can to be a better man. Or perhaps you've heard the call but are looking for help to more fully step into your purpose as a Godly man? Whatever brought you here, it wasn't an accident, and my guest today has made it his mission to help men just like you.

Joining me today is Jay Cookingham. He is the founder of Strategic Fathering Ministries, author of the book Sonship, host of the ManUp Moment radio show, and pastor of Bridge Builders Community Church. Leaning on his own life experiences as a husband and father, along with his writings and ministry, Jay has helped equip men everywhere to embrace the call of our Heavenly Father, and be strategic fathers with our kids.

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